I have worked for almost 2 years in Zürich as a hostess. What I don’t recommend is to do that job in a small city / village or Italian, southern parts of the world as there people are trashy, touchy and uneducated. In Zürich was different, there is for sure a lot of prostitution, but as said, nobody forces you. You don’t dance on the stage, but in the private rooms there is for sure atleast topless, but it’s not that you’re obliged as well, just everybody will ask you why they should pay from 350€ to 1000€ champagne to go to a private room and if your answer doesn’t include anything what can excite the boy – you’ll fail… however, since there are no dances on the stage, people leave you VERY GOOD tips for private dances, they pay champagne + you can expect 400-1000 cash for 1 h spending time with them topless, entertaining them, dancing together, no sex though.